You may not have what you want because you don’t need it. Your life is probably great already and what you want is not a necessity but just a want. You don’t have to work because you are already comfortable with where you are at. The bills are paid for. Food is on the plate and there is nothing to worry about.
You may want something else but are you willing to put in the work to get it?
Are you happy with where you live? Where you work? Who your friends are? Your relationships? The money you make? Your health?
If you want more then you have to be hungrier to give more and do more. Change your STRATEGY, STORY, and STATE. Make what you want a necessity.