Do nice things for other people because you are a nice person. You do not need a reason to be nice to someone and you shouldn’t do something just because you want something in return. You do these incredible act of kindness not to suck up but to show off how much the person means to you. You show people you care for by doing a bunch of little things for them even if they go unnoticed. It costs nothing to give someone a compliment, it takes a small amount of effort to hold the door open for someone. There are so many little ways to show someone they mean a whole lot to you.
Author: noiz viol8ion
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noiz viol8ion blog #498 – Upgrade Your Environment
Upgrade you mood.
This is your life and you need to find ways to make you feel alive. Take the time to figure yourself out and what motivates you to do more.
Enjoy and be in the ecstasy of the moment.
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noiz viol8ion blog #497 – Enjoy the Present Moment
Do not let the past hold you back and do not let the future paralyze or intimidate you.
Live in the present. Control the present and you will control the future. The actions you take now will be the results you see in the future.
Focus on ways you can enjoy what you are already doing even more.
What are you seeing right now? What are you hearing? What are you smelling? What are you tasting? What are you feeling?
Enhance all of these things and your present will be enhanced.
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noiz viol8ion blog #496 – Write it Out
Something happens when you write. Your thoughts become a reality. Your words become action. Your thinking becomes doing.
This is always the first step.
Not complain or procrastinate about the situation.
Focus on your thoughts and turn them into action.
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noiz viol8ion blog #495 – Look Without Judging
Each person has their own perspective about the world and a situation. Everyone puts a filter on the world. Some people can try on other filters and some leave theirs on thinks theirs is right while everyone else’s is wrong. As they look through this filter they judge things as right or wrong, good or bad. People are romantic about how they think things should go and get upset when they don’t go that way.
If we see things as they are in the moment and not get caught up in seeing things as the way they think they should be we will be a lot more observant. Take the judgement out of it and just observe. Soak in all the information, process it and make the best decision.
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noiz viol8ion blog #494 – Two Things Most People Get Wrong
You can do anything if you prepare for it.
What people get wrong is:
- They do not know what they want. They are a plastic bag floating in the wind. It’s Alice when she asks the Cat which direction she needs to go and he said depends on where you want to go. You must know where you want to end up.
- Once you know what you want then you must know why you want it. This is reinforcement for when things get tough to remind you why you are fighting for it in the first place. Your why will make it easy when things get tough.
People are focused on the wrong things so they end up doing the wrong things. This leaves a deep unfulfilled feeling.
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noiz viol8ion blog #493 – Is the Suffering Worth it?
You have to be able to withstand the suffering for the reward. There will be pain. There will be struggling. There will be hard times.
The pain is growth. The pain is the reward. You earned the pain. Keep your eye on the prize. Know that everything will be worth it in the end. The pain is temporary and victory is forever. The harder you work and the more pain you can withstand the more it will pay off. If you want something you must give something.
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noiz viol8ion blog #492 – Get Back on the Horse
You are going to fail. You are going to make mistakes. You are going to lose. There are many reasons you are going to fall off the horse. These could be doubts, fears and failure but there are limited reasons you get back on the horse. What are you reasons to keep going? Do you have the grit to not stop?
You must be willing to put it all on the line. You must know why you are putting yourself through the struggle. If your why is not big enough then you won’t get back on. Create compelling goals that you must accomplish.
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noiz viol8ion blog #491 – Fight the Resistance
There is always resistance to what you want to do. There is procrastination, there are problems, challenges, hurdles, and self doubts. No matter it is you want to accomplish there will be something that tries to stop you.
The only time you will clean out the garage or your closet is when you have something else you want to get done. There will be resistance but if you are focused and resourceful then you will be able to get through anything.
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