Tag: control

  • Change With Life

    Change With Life

    Change is the only thing this is for sure.

    You are going to get older and go through life. You are going to progress though different grades and schools. You are going to change where you live multiple times. Your friends are going to change. Everything in your life is going to change at one point or another. Even your body has a complete set of new cells in it every 7 years.

    Knowing how to deal with change will make your life a whole lot easier and less stressful. Know that what is today will not be tomorrow. As much as you try to keep things in your control they will eventually change.

    What are the best ways to deal with change?

  • noiz viol8ion blog #820 – Focus On What I Can Control

    noiz viol8ion blog #820 – Focus On What I Can Control

    I should only focus on what I can control.

    A lot is out of our control but a lot is in our control.

    My thoughts and actions are in my control (mostly)

    Other people’s thoughts and actions are out of my control (mostly).

    I can focus on the meaning I give to things. I can control the results I am going after. I can control my habits, my goals, how I treat people, how I treat myself and my intentions.

  • noiz viol8ion blog #577 – In Control

    noiz viol8ion blog #577 – In Control

    Being in control takes practice. There is so much going on around us that it is easy to loose focus or get caught up in our emotions. When we are in control we are not reacting to every little thing that happens around us. We are using what is around us to benefit our mission. We are playing with the world because we know the rules of the universe. We can see the chain of dominos fall even before we tip over the first one. We have the ability to see patterns and install habits in our life. We know where these habits and patterns will lead us because we are in control.

  • noiz viol8ion blog #454 – Your Plan vs God’s Plan

    noiz viol8ion blog #454 – Your Plan vs God’s Plan

    There is often a gap between where I want my life to go and where it actually goes. I often wonder if I am control or if there is so much going on that it is too much to control. The truth lies somewhere in the middle. I can control certain things and something I can’t. Knowing this is stressful because there are certain things in life you just have to accept. Everything will not go exactly as planned. We share this world with 8 billion other people who do not think or act the same. There could be a lot more chaos than there actually is. Be present and remind yourself of the Serenity Prayer.

    God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

    courage to change the things I can,

    and wisdom to know the difference.

     Reinhold Niebuhr
  • noiz viol8ion blog #351 – Decisions and Conditions

    noiz viol8ion blog #351 – Decisions and Conditions

    Stuff happens but what do you do about it. How do you react to the conditions that the world gives you. We are not guaranteed a good hand in life. We are not even guaranteed life. So what does this mean? It means that we have control over how we react and the decisions that we make. We do not have control over what happens to us. It is your decisions that you have the most control over to change your life. The decision on how you see the world. The decision on how you see your self. The decision on what time to wake up. The decision to go party or to work. I’m not saying any of these are good or bad but you will get different results based off your different decisions.

  • noiz viol8ion blog #325 – Take Back Your Control

    noiz viol8ion blog #325 – Take Back Your Control

    The moment you say “I can’t.” The moment you blame someone else like your boss or the government. The moment you doubt yourself. You are giving all your power to what you are blaming.

    Do not give up your power and control so easy.

    If you want something do whatever it takes to get it. Your mental state and how you live your life is one of the most important things you have control over. Too many times we often give up this control without realizing it.

    Take ownership of your happiness. Take full responsibility of your life.

  • noiz viol8ion blog #297 – Growth = Happiness

    noiz viol8ion blog #297 – Growth = Happiness

    Keep doing what you love and keep improving everyday. As long as you are supporting life then life will support you. As long as you are giving value to people then people will give value to you.

    The only thing you have control over is you and what you focus on. You have no control over what other people do. You have no control over the market. The world does not owe you anything. The world does not care about you. You have to play by the worlds rules and not your own. If you change yourself and improve yourself then you will change your place in the world.

    Be yourself and be the best version of yourself.