It sounds like such a simple question but many times people don’t know the answer to why.
Why are you working at your job?
Why are you with the person you are with?
Why are you happy? or Why are you depressed
Why are you healthy? or Why are you not?
Having a powerful why will pull you to accomplish all of your dreams. You will not need motivation because you have passion.
The answers are all around us but we need to ask better questions to unlock better results.
If you want a different result then what you are getting then you need to ask a different question.
A quality question will open your mind to quality answers. You must ask the question and listen for the response.
Practice asking questions just like any other skill you want to get better at.
Be humble with who you are and what you know to allow other people to be the expert.
Put your ego to the side and listen to others so you can learn.
When you talk, you are only repeating what you already know. But if you listen, you may learn something new.
The Dalai Lama
Be a sponge and absorb as much as you can. The more curious you are in listening the easier it is to ask great questions.
Everyone has one question they ask constantly.
What this question is will direct what you focus on and the decision you make.
Do you know your primary question?
One of Tony Robbins primary questions is, “How can I enjoy how perfect things are and make them better valiantly and more enjoyable for everybody?” This question presupposes everything is already perfect (which it is!)
Everything is exactly as it should be and it is your job to make sense out of the chaos, to find joy and happiness in the world.
When you are in a challenging situation ask yourself these question to get over it.
What is good about this problem?
What can I learn from this problem?
What is great about this problem?
What is not perfect yet?
What am I willing to do to make it the way I want?
What am I not willing to do to make it the way I want?
How can I enjoy the process?
If you ask yourself these question then you will be well on your way to achieving enjoyable results.
*Questions from Tony Robbins
How can you make something you do not want to do as fun as possible?
There are always things that do not sound like fun but must get done. Work can be tedious. Work can be monotonous. Work can be boring. Work can be lonely. Work can be stressful. Work can be all these negative things but it has to get done no matter what.
The best way to do these things is to ask, “How can I make this as fun as possible?”
Just asking the question will bring answers to your mind. Be open and try out one of the answers to see where it takes you.
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