There is very little difference in the mind between dreaming something and actually doing something. When we allow ourselves to dream of accomplishing our highest goals then we will feel the happiness that comes with it. It actually feels like we have done it. The brain builds the neural pathways and makes the same connections. By dreaming it first, it makes the action of doing it easier.
Author: noiz viol8ion
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noiz viol8ion blog #460 – Your Ideal Outcome
Are you the pawn of other people’s decisions?
Unless you have your own goals and ideal outcomes then you will never be the captain of your own ship.
It’s hard and scary to take on the responsibility of your own life. If you are not responsible then you will always blame others.
Your ideal outcome should be a big scary goal with small manageable steps to get there.
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noiz viol8ion blog #459 – Don’t Feed the Beast
There is a dark depressive beast in all of us. It loves when we make excuses. It loves when we doubt ourselves. It loves when we overthink and procrastinate. The beast feeds on all of this negative energy. Every time you don’t do something you want to do or every time you lie to yourself you are feeding the beast a big juicy steak. Until you are free from the beast you will not be free. Until the beast no longer scares you then you will live in fear and regret. Take control of your thoughts and actions. Take control of your decisions.
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noiz viol8ion blog #458 – The Obstacle is The Gift
The biggest obstacle in your life has the opportunity to be your biggest gift. If you are capable of opening yourself up to this opportunity you will be able to help yourself and other people.
Accept the responsibility of this obstacle and solve it. Once you solve it you will be a better person and if other people are going through the same obstacle then you can help them as well.
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noiz viol8ion blog #457 – Beauty to the Core
Beauty is not skin deep. Beauty goes all the way down to the core.
A new coat of paint can be put on anything to make it look good but under that surface is a deteriorating hunk of junk.
Just like in Indiana Jones, the Holy Grail is not the most extravagant cup. Indiana Jones had to find the beauty in the core and not on the surface.
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noiz viol8ion blog #456 – Give Up to Get
There are many thing you do that are not helping you get what you want. Common excuses:
“I don’t have the time.”
“I can’t afford that.”
“I am not good enough.”
These excuses are because you do not want to change or adjust your lifestyle to get to the next level. There will never be more than 24 hrs in a day. What are you willing to give up doing to get what you want. You will never make more money if you keep doing and buying what you are now. What you willing to stop buying or start doing to get more money. You will never get better unless you put in the work. What are you willing to give up doing in order to get better?
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noiz viol8ion blog #455 – What’s Your Favorite Pleasure?
There are many forms of please. Physical, Emotional, Short Term, Long Term.
Drugs and Alcohol can give a huge rush of short term pleasure but as soon as the high is over reality comes rushing back. Nothing has changed and your life is still the same.
Working out hard can also give you a rush of short term pleasure. Not while your doing it but immediately after your body rewards you with hits of dopamine.
Buying the $8 coffee every morning is a good idea now and will taste great. Doing this 5 days a week for 50 weeks a year is spending $2,000. Saving or investing this will set you up for a huge long term pleasure.
Understand and find a balance between Short Term and Long Term, pain and pleasure.
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noiz viol8ion blog #454 – Your Plan vs God’s Plan
There is often a gap between where I want my life to go and where it actually goes. I often wonder if I am control or if there is so much going on that it is too much to control. The truth lies somewhere in the middle. I can control certain things and something I can’t. Knowing this is stressful because there are certain things in life you just have to accept. Everything will not go exactly as planned. We share this world with 8 billion other people who do not think or act the same. There could be a lot more chaos than there actually is. Be present and remind yourself of the Serenity Prayer.
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
courage to change the things I can,
and wisdom to know the difference.
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noiz viol8ion blog #453 – Re-Write Your Story
Everyone has a story of who they are and where they are going. This story is either conscious for them or it is unconscious.
I recommend using https://www.selfauthoring.com/ . This will help you understand you past, define your present and create an ideal future.
Do not hold back. Nothing is right or wrong just be honest.
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noiz viol8ion blog #452 – Use Pain to Change
What is causing you the most pain? Is it you health? Is it your financials? Is it you relationships? Is it your happiness?
This pain can be used as the greatest gift as motivation to help you change. Instead of ignoring the pain, use the pain as motivation to get what you want. When the pain is so great we will go to great lengths to make it stop. Think of the joy and relief of the pain being gone will bring you. It won’t be easy but it will be worth it.
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