What scares you? What gives you anxiety? What are your biggest fears?
The best way to get over your fears is to understand them. When you are able to articulate exactly what gives you the most anxiety this is the first step to getting over it. Getting over your fears does not mean they go away. Getting over your fears means you are gaining courage. The fear does not diminish. Fears never go away but you can get over them and face them.
When you are clear about who you are and who you want to be then you can be clear about what to do. Being unclear brings confusion and doubt. There are so many options and they can all sound like good ideas. Unless you are specific and decide then you will lack the clarity, the confidence and commitment. Clarity will bring confidence because the clouds are clear and you can see the direction you are going. Be clear about what skills you are working on, how you want to make money, how you want to be healthy, the people you want in your life and how you want to serve people.
Be extremely specific about what you want to do. Live a life with no regrets. Imagine into the future and it’s your last day. Your looking back at your life wondering if you did everything you wanted to. If you are the person you wanted to be. If you contributed everything you wanted to the world. If you loved all that you could.
The more clarity you have today will give you more peace later. Be specific about what you want to do, who you want to be, what you want to give and anything else that is important to you.
Change begins within yourself. You have to change how you think, the way you see thing in the world, your actions, your habits, the way you interact with people, how you talk to people and how you react.
Take a snap shot of where you are right now and what is going on in your life. Take any emotion out of it and just be real with yourself. How is your health? What is your net worth? How are your relationships? Are you happy?
Be detailed and honest with yourself. Bring a level of clarity and awareness to your life. This is your life and your responsibility to make it better or worse than it is now.
If you are not clear on exactly what you want then it is like swimming around in muddy waters. You could be swimming in circles and have no idea. Unless you see the path then there is no way to tell your on it.
How do you know what thoughts and ideas to follow and which ones to leave alone?
Your focus should not be cheap. Stop letting your devices and notifications steal away your focus. Take the time to plan and commit to your craft and work. Create a focus area where you can work without distractions. Be willing to block out everything else and focus on one thing.
