People have hard times making decisions. When a person can’t make a decision they look for a Subject Matter Expert to help them make the decision. When you are a specialist you can help other people save time and money by giving them the right solution. Being an expert give you authority and influence over people. They will listen to you and take advice from you because they trust you.
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noiz viol8ion blog #721 – Influence by Robert Cialdini (Super Short Summary)
Types of Influence:
1. Be an expert.
2. Be a fit by resonating with message and values.
3. Be exclusive.
4. Be a giver.
5. Collaborate with a celebrity.
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noiz viol8ion blog #720 – Listen To Me
If you want people to listen to you then first you have to listen to other people. You cannot help someone when you do not know what they need help with. Listen to other people and let them tell you what their problem is. Maybe you know how to help or not but being their and listening is already a help.
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noiz viol8ion blog #719 – Become a Better Asker
It’s ok to want more as long as you are willing to ask more out of yourself. Ask more to get out of your life, your relationships, and your job. If you do not ask then you will keep getting what you have been getting. Before you ask though be sure your willing to pay the price. If you ask for more then you will be asked to do more as well. Only ask for more if you are willing to give more.
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noiz viol8ion blog #718 – Super Sunday
What do you most look foreword to on Super Bowl Sunday? Is it football, the commercials, food, betting, or seeing people.
Who is going to win the game? The Rams or the Bengals?
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noiz viol8ion blog #717 – Solution Through Action
Every problem in your life has to be solved through action. You can spend time focus on a problem or you can spend time acting on a solution. Keep trying different things and looking at the results. Keep taking massive action and thrive in your life.
When you have a problem, what can you learn from it? What is great about the problem? What are you willing to do and not do to solve the problem? How can you enjoy solving the problem?
The answers and your action to these question will get you through anything.
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noiz viol8ion blog #716 – Problem Focused
When you focus on the problem you will find the problem. You may even find more than one problem and the problem may get bigger and more complex. There will become different aspects of the problem and some of these aspects will be intimidating. If you keep focusing on the problem then you may get so scared of the problem that there is no solution. The problem becomes bigger because you keep feeding it and giving it power. You start to identify with the problem and carry it around with you. The problem becomes a distraction for what you should actually be doing. The problem becomes an excuse for not doing what you should be doing. The problem is a way out because the solution is too hard. When you shift to focusing on solutions then your problems get smaller and get solved.
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noiz viol8ion blog #715 – How Can You Serve Others
When thinking about a business or your purpose in life a good question to ask is how you can be of service?
When you are serving other you will be rewarded with happiness, love and wealth. There is a personal satisfaction about helping others. You can take pain away from someone’s life by providing effort from you own life.
Service can be any way of providing value to others. Others can be your partner, your family, your friends or your work.
Look around at all the areas of your life where you can provide better service.
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noiz viol8ion blog #714 – Clarity Brings Confidence
When you are clear about who you are and who you want to be then you can be clear about what to do. Being unclear brings confusion and doubt. There are so many options and they can all sound like good ideas. Unless you are specific and decide then you will lack the clarity, the confidence and commitment. Clarity will bring confidence because the clouds are clear and you can see the direction you are going. Be clear about what skills you are working on, how you want to make money, how you want to be healthy, the people you want in your life and how you want to serve people.
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noiz viol8ion blog #713 – Become More Valuable
The better you become the more valuable you will become. You can become more valuable in many areas other that money. If you improve your ability to communicate you will become a more valuable leader and have more valuable relationships. If you become more valuable in your knowledge you are able to share more with other. If you become more valuable then you can give more value. The more value you give the more value you will get back and it will create a positive feedback loop.
