Whether you are right and want all the credit is the same as whether you are wrong and don’t want all the blame. Either way take full responsibility of the situation, how you handled it and what you said. Ultimately what you do is your choice and yours alone. Where you work, who your friends are and what you do with your time. Do not blame other people for your decisions. Understand yourself and if you are wrong then reflect on the situation and get better.
Tag: Responsibility
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noiz viol8ion blog #363 – No Exception to Acceptance
To make thing better you must fully accept how things are. Do no deny or look over anything. Accept full responsibility of your situation and changing your situation. Accept the good and the bad. It is you who made the decisions that has got you to where you are and it will be you that makes the decisions that will get you to where you want to go. Accept the consequences of your actions. Accept the outcomes of your decisions.
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noiz viol8ion blog #325 – Take Back Your Control
The moment you say “I can’t.” The moment you blame someone else like your boss or the government. The moment you doubt yourself. You are giving all your power to what you are blaming.
Do not give up your power and control so easy.
If you want something do whatever it takes to get it. Your mental state and how you live your life is one of the most important things you have control over. Too many times we often give up this control without realizing it.
Take ownership of your happiness. Take full responsibility of your life.
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Blog #218 – Which of these 2 mindsets do you have?
In the book Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck, she talks about people having two different types of mindsets.
- The Fixed Mindset
- The Growth Mindset
The fixed mindset is when people put a label on themselves. They think they are born good or bad at something. They think there are either smart or dumb at things. They think they are fat or skinny. These people are more anxious and think people are judging them.
The growth mindset people are more at ease because they are becoming something. They may not be as good as they want to be but know they can work on their skills. They are not stuck because they are always growing. They have the power to increase their competency. They take responsibility on themselves to grow
