Most of media is not designed to inform you. Media is a business just like Hollywood movies. The news wants to bring up an emotion in you. They want to grab you attention and make you watch like your life depends on it. They want you to share the story like you are saving other people’s lives. The people reporting this “news” has no ethics and is only after likes and clicks. They dramatize and exaggerate because there has to be breaking news every single second of every single day.
Category: Mindset
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noiz viol8ion blog #526 – Embrace Failure
To embrace failure is not to make failure feel better. Failure feels terrible and it should feel terrible. To embrace failure is to feel this terrible feeling. To soak this feeling in and do whatever it take to not feel it again. To use failure as a learning opportunity. When failure happens the important thing is to reflect on the failure and be curious as to why it happened and how you can avoid it next time.
Failure can be a motivator because it is so painful. The pain should not stop you from taking action the pain should motivate you to be more prepared. Failure can not be avoided but can be mitigated. The mitigation is your preparedness. How much did you practice? How much did you learn? How much effort did you put in?
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noiz viol8ion blog #525 – Recommendations
The best compliment you can get is a recommendation from someone who received help from you. You solved someone’s problem. You gave someone a service. You did something so great that someone recommended you to someone else. A recommendation is a compliment. When someone recommends you they are putting their own credibility on the line. You must take recommendations as a badge of honor.
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noiz viol8ion blog #524 – Marketing 101
Who is your market and what is there pain point?
When you want to market to someone you must know who your market is. You must exagerate the pain of the problem. Accentuate the pain and bring it to the forefront. The pain is so bad that the person is willing to try anything to get rid of it. They are willing to try anything but only you have a vehicle/product/service that will get them from where they are currently to where they want to be. Where they want to be is out of pain and have their problem solved. Your product will do this guaranteed or they will continue to be in pain. If they use another product they will continue to be in pain.
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noiz viol8ion blog #523 – Free is not Free
People want things for free but when you get something for free you do not get the full value out of it. When something is given to you it is easy come easy go. When you work hard and spend your own money on something you appreciate it and value that thing a lot higher.
It is in our nature to help someone out of pain but it does not help is given without being earned. It may help temporarily but eventually the person will revert back because the lesson was not learned. People need to sit in their pain to learn the lesson or they need to change by proving it, by earning it. Once people prove they want to change thats when help and love will wash over them like a tsunami.
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noiz viol8ion blog #522 – Question Your Actions
Why are you doing what you are doing?
Why are you at your current job?
How satisfied are you? How can you become more satisfied?
Who are you? How can you know yourself better?
What skills do you have that will benefit others? What can you do to have the greatest positive impact on the world?
How can I do what I am doing but better?
What do I think that is different than everyone else?
How can I bring people together?
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noiz viol8ion blog #521 – Support Your HWHL
Do things that support your Health.
Do what supports your Wealth.
Do what makes you Happy.
Do things that spread Love.This are four pillars of life to measure your actions. If all your actions go into one of these things the quality of your life will improve.
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noiz viol8ion blog #520 – Becoming You
There are many different you’s. There is the you that you were. The you that you are now. Then there is the you that you are becoming. The most important you is the you you are becoming. It is extremely important to be crystal clear on the you. When you are clear where you want to go and who you want to be then you can be clear on what you need to do to get there. In the moment ask yourself, “Is what I am doing bringing me closer or further than who I want to become?”
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noiz viol8ion blog #519 – Seasons
What season are you in?
Things can be dark and cold at times but after this the sun comes out. Know what season you are in so that you can prepare for the next one. Do not make things worse than they are and do not make things better than they are. You must be equally prepared for each season.
When things are good, enjoy them. When things are bad, reflect on it. There are two extremes that you will bounce between and each one can be learning opportunity for the next time you are in that season.
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noiz viol8ion blog #518 – Darkest Before the Dawn
How do you feel at your lowest moment? Down, depressed, discourage, no energy, irritable, angry?
You begin to question everything. You wonder why you are still going on. You are trapped in a situation you can’t get out of. Just when you think things can’t get any worse they do. You are on your last attempt. Your last straw. Your last breath. Your back is up against the wall and there is no where else to go. You are desperate and willing to do whatever it takes.
Only when you are in this state that it finally clicks. You no longer focus on how bad it is because you already know. You turn you focus to opportunity. You think of what actions you can take to turn your situation around. The light begins to shine through and it is up to you to continue to seek light or retreat back into the darkness.
