No one is going to tell you what you want. You have to figure this out yourself. You must decide on where you want to live, what kind of job you want, the people you develop relationships with, how to take care of your body.
If you do not decide this then you will not know how to make decisions. There must be a destination or else you will end up going down random paths. You may end up with a good happy life or you may not.
If you fail to plan, you are planning to fail!
Benjamin Franklin
You are who you think you are. Whatever you tell yourself is true. If you think you are fat then you are fate. If you think you are lazy then you will find ways to be lazy. If you think you are a procrastinating failure then you will find a way to fail. If you think you are a successful superstar that is going to take over the world then you will find opportunities to do so. The story you tell yourself can be negative or empowering and the choice is up to you about who you are in your story. Be the hero. Be a winner. Be a problem solver. Be the person you look up to.
There is not one single action that will take you from where you are to where you want to be. I’m sure you have heard of taking baby steps. It is called taking baby steps because babies are not born with the ability to walk. Babies have to slowly learn how to balance and use their muscles correctly. They have to fall over and over again until they take learn how to walk. If nothing else babies are persistent because they keep falling until they learn to walk. Each step you take is a success. You will fall but eventually you will learn to walk and even run. Start small and the accumulation of all the hard work of each step with build on itself.
Stop waiting until you are ready. As soon as you are ready its already too late.
No one learns by being successful at everything they do. The biggest lessons are learned from the biggest failures. It takes no courage to keep swinging if you win. The real courage comes from keeping on going after you have taken a lose. The greatest teams in sports do not lose twice in a row. They rebound from the loss get better.
The real success is who you become and how you look at yourself.
Keep giving more than you receive. Be generous without being timid.
Failure is inevitable but you will learn from failure. You will be better off after because you will have learned. This can be from your own failures and other people’s.
What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.
Pay respect to those who have come before you and learn from their history. Listen to their lessons and improve from them. Let their experience give you confidence in yourself.
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