The three sides to every situation are your side, my side and the unbiased truth. When something happens we do not see the event, we see the event through the filter of our own experiences, ideals and beliefs. We have expectations about how the world should be and when our expectations are met or brokenContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #652 – Three Sides to Every Situation”
What do you wish for? Do you think through all the pros and cons? Many people want to be a millionaire but no one wants to put in the work it takes to get there. They would rather get lucky and win the lottery. Then there are the people willing to put in the work.Continue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #629 – Be Careful It May Come True”
Make your goals pull you to accomplish them. Do not make your goals an over inflated version of yourself. Do not wish to become a better singer. Do not wish to become more famous. Do not wish to have more money. Instead wish that your work will inspire other people. Wish that your work canContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #618 – Motivating Goals”
Being in control takes practice. There is so much going on around us that it is easy to loose focus or get caught up in our emotions. When we are in control we are not reacting to every little thing that happens around us. We are using what is around us to benefit our mission.Continue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #577 – In Control”
The power of having a clear defined outcome is one of the most power focuses you can have. Like in Alice in Wonderland if you don’t care where you want to get to then it doesn’t matter which way you go. A wrong guess on where you want to go is better than no guess.Continue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #568 – Chief Aim”
The pleasure starts out as a result you want. If only I had a million dollars. If only I had a six pack. If only I was dating the person of my dreams. If only I was a rock star. If only all this was true then I would be happy. People see the endContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #566 – Pleasure Progress”
There is nothing quiet like the feeling of knowing that right now at this moment you are better than you were a year ago, a month ago or even better a day ago. Progress is one thing that makes me happy. Progress lets me know I am doing some things right. Even the smallest amountContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #553 – Happy Progress”
Bring together the pieces that will create the life of your dreams. Invite the people you love into your life and hang out with them. Plan your outings that will bring you happiness because its things you love to do. Learn skills that will increase the quality of your life. Build in habits to yourContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #543 – Be The Designer of Your Life”
The moment adversity strikes is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. Will you self deprecate? Automatically blame yourself for something going wrong? Or accept the fact that nothing is perfect? No one can be perfect every time. Everyone falls off the horse but not everyone gets back on.
Try. Even if you know it’s going to be bad. Still Try. The worst that can happen is you don’t try at all.