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  • noiz viol8ion blog #314 – Contribute to the Greater Good

    noiz viol8ion blog #314 – Contribute to the Greater Good

    Really engage with people because you never know what might happen. There is no better time that the present to have a good time and show people that you really care about them. You also never really know what someone else is going through so if you can brighten their day for a moment then you could have a drastic impact on their life.

    Showing people that you care about them and give them unconditional love never runs out of style. Sometime you can’t do everything or they are not willing to break down their barriers but that should not stop you from being you and being a wonderful person.

    Be as grateful as you can be for anything that someone does for you. Show them how much it means to you that they have spent their time and effort doing something for you. Compliment them on everything they are good at and try to return the favor.

  • Blog #64 – The Golden Rule is Flawed!

    Let people thrive by being themselves. Do not try to change people or tell them how they should be doing things. Everyone is different and will come up with a different way to do the same thing. It may not be the way you would do it but no one is like you.

    Even the “Golden Rule” is flawed because everyone wants to be treated different and if someone treats us how we don’t want to be treated then we get upset. They may be treating us that way because it is a different culture or any number of reasons.

    It is our own expectations that causes us discomfort. The expectations of what others should be doing. The expectations of how we should be treated. The expectations that you are owed something. The expectations of who people are.

    Trade your expectations for appreciation and your whole world changes in an instant.

    Tony Robbins

    With no expectations you leave nothing to chance. You become a leader and do things for yourself. You are not waiting around for other people to do things for you. With no expectations everything becomes a surprise and a blessing. Expectations are always a let down. Lower the bar and appreciate all the small things.

  • Blog #36 – Life’s Golden Rule

    Treat others the way you want to be treated.

    We all know this one and our taught it at a very young age but we all still need to be reminded.

    The other part that is not taught is that we should also treat ourselves the way we want others to treat us.

    There is no love without self love. We can only give what we have and if there is nothing inside there is nothing to give. Spreading positive energy is a practice. Start small with compliments or a smile.

    Everything you give will come back to you. All the nice things you do for people will come back around when you least expect. When you are at your lowest moment there will be people there to pick you up. This is the greatest way to win. The more you help other people win the more you will win.