If you feel lost, depressed or on the wrong track it is probably because you have been ignoring yourself. You have ignored the habits you do everyday. You are not doing the things that serve you but are distracted by things serving other people.
You are stuck in a rut because you have no vision for your future. If you don’t know where you are going then you will go no where. You will avoid adversity. You will avoid being uncomfortable. You will not grow.
I have a tendency to look at the competition and see what their doing. If they are doing something that is working then I should do it too right?
Steal what works and leave the rest.
Today people are compromising their values for followers. Monkey see monkey do. Is a race to the bottom. Who can troll the best? Who can show the most skin? Who can make the biggest promise? Who can create click bait?
The day you try cut corners is the beginning of the end.
Stick to your truth. Stick to what inspires you. Stick to what motivates you. Stick to your interest.
Practice communication between your body and your mind.
Practice self awareness so you know yourself better than anything.
Know what makes you happy. Know what turns you on. Know why things make you happy or sad. Know what you like and dislike.
Dive deep within yourself to really find out what makes you tick.
People are mandated to goto elementary school, middle school and high school. No one is mandated to go to self school. By self school I mean learning about your self. Learning about how your mind and body operate. Practicing to work with your own personal uniqueness. Figuring out what your one of a kind strengths and weaknesses are. If you want to be successful then you have to know your self.
You have to know what positions you thrive in and what you should avoid. If things are not going well for you then you do not know yourself enough. Take the time to ask yourself what it is you really want to accomplish. Know what your calling is and have a simple well defined one sentence purpose.
Mine is “Entertain and inspire people to achieve their full potential.”
Create a vision so compelling you are eager to get up and tap dance to work.
You know better than anyone else who you are. You are always right when answering this question because your body and mind will make yourself right. If you say you are a procrastinator then you will procrastinate. If you say you are successful then you will succeed. If you say you are a loser you will find a way to lose.
People will always make themselves right. Whether you have empowering or disempowering beliefs about who you are, you are always right. If you change these foundations about who you are your life will change with it.
You are not a subject of your circumstances or your emotions but a choice you can make about who you are. You are not your past. You are not fixed as your current self and your future self has yet to be determined.
You must decide on who you want to become.
Don’t do anything you do not believe in. Be the you that you want to become. Do not get caught up in the superficial lifestyles or worry about other people. The only thing you should focus on is becoming a better version of yourself. If you work hard and gain enough talent the you will not have to play any tricks or games. You will be coming from an authentic place and people will recognize that. The first step is being real with yourself and having self awareness. Don’t get caught up in other people’s games. Don’t be a people pleaser. If you give it your all and don’t hold back then you won’t have any regrets. The worst thing is to have regrets because you gave up all your time to someone or something that was not worth it. Only you know what is worth it.
