When your success equals other people’s success then these people will do everything they can to help you. You must let them know how important it is for them to succeed. You are there to help them anyway you can. In making them better they will offer to make you better.
Tag: Wealth
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noiz viol8ion blog #595 – Everything and Nothing Matters
You do things because they are important to you. You try so hard because you want to look good in front of other people. You want to be seen as a professional and you don’t want to make mistakes because it will make you look bad. This is all in your head. Everyone else does not give a shit about whether you succeed. Unless you tie your missions together other people will not care if you fail or not. Unless they buy into your success as their success then they could care less about what you are doing. It may feel like everyone is judging you but really no one cares. They have their own life going on.
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noiz viol8ion blog #594 – More Than You’re Paid For
Do more than you are being paid to do, and you’ll eventually be paid more for what you do.
Zig ZiglarWhen you think about what you do, do you do the bare minimum? do you go the extra mile? do you meet expectations?
There are many ways to do something but the only way to get ahead is to do more than everyone else. You must do what everyone else doesn’t want to do. You must volunteer for extra curriculars and take on extra tasks, read that extra book, post one more time and write the extra blog. Learn more and you will become more. You will provide more value and eventually get paid more.
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noiz viol8ion blog #589 – Only Out of Necessity
People only do things out of necessity. Until you absolutely have to get something done you will probably find an excuse or a reason to procrastinate. One habit of successful people is to raise their necessity.
What do you need? What is a must for you?
To get things done you have to turn you should’s into musts. The earlier you realize that you can’t avoid or procrastinate something the sooner you will get it done. The greater the necessity the greater the effort you will put into it and the more value people will get out of it.
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noiz viol8ion blog #588 – Be More Kind To Yourself
Do not keep beating yourself up. It is not doing anything besides making you depressed. If you want to be something to someone then you must be that to yourself first. To love someone you must love yourself first. To move someone you have to move yourself fist. To inspire someone you have to inspire yourself first.
Be the leader by setting the example. Experiment on yourself and see what works and what doesn’t work. When you are experimenting just know that you are experimenting. If something doesn’t work then move on to the next thing. Do not attack your character. Do not call yourself names.
We are all human and are not perfect so stop expecting yourself to be. Collect yourself and get ready for the next opportunity. Try your best and learn from it. Keep getting better. Keep learning. Keep growing. Keep being kind to yourself.
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noiz viol8ion blog #587 – Get It Right First
Take the time to get it right. Mistakes are costly in time and money. Having to pay the price to go back and fix mistakes is a great learning experience. Now you know where you were wrong and the next time you are likely to not make the same mistake. People love it when you make mistakes. There is a whole TV show “America’s Funniest Home Videos” where people laugh at other people’s failure. If you are wrong then they have a scapegoat and somewhere to place the blame. Most people don’t want to put themselves out there and take on the responsibility. They do not want the chance to be wrong.
If you are confident in yourself and the work you do then show it off. Accept the challenge and the responsibility. You know what you are talking about. Show your work and explain why each decision was made. Just get it right the first time or be prepared to learn.
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noiz viol8ion blog #585 – What Traveling Will Do
Traveling will open up a new path and build new connections. When you travel somewhere new then everything is new. Your brain is constantly taking in new information about the sights, smells, tastes, feels and the people. Traveling gives you the sense that the world is a bigger place than you realize. People live different lives and have different cultures. You gain a new perspective about the human and life experience. Your way is not the only way. There are multiple paths to get to where you want to go.
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noiz viol8ion blog #582 – Fill UP
Fill up yourself fist. Fill up yourself with love and happiness. Fill up yourself with health and wealth. Fill up you with self love. Fill up with energy and excitement. When your full of all these things you are able to share them with other people and the world. These are the greatest gifts we can give someone. We can give people an ear to listen to them. We can give people a smile or joke to cheer them up. We can give someone an invitation to have a good time. Without you being in a good place and full of good energy then it is impossible to give what you don’t have.
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noiz viol8ion blog #579 – The Uncomfortable Zone of Growth
The best part of starting something new is that growth happens so fast and often. Then beginning is also the scariest because you are going into the unknown. This fear and uncomfort should not be feared but should be embraced. Embrace this fear and step into this darkness. Once you start down the path you will be greatly rewarded with new skills, new brain connections and new everything. Your value will keep increasing and your rewards will keep coming as long as you keep stepping into the uncomfort. Each time will be scarier and each time there will be more resistance. That is why the rewards become so great because many are not willing to go there. Sometimes you have to face your worse fear to attain freedom.
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noiz viol8ion blog #576 – What are your Pillars?
HEALTH, WEALTH, HAPPINESS, LOVE, TRUTH, COURAGE, FAITH, POWER
What are the basics of your life? When you make a decision what theme does it feed. If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything. There are so many distractions internally and externally. If we build a solid foundation internally then we know how to handle situations better and make decisions better. What are the poles of your internal compass? The external world is always changing but if we are guided by a constant internal we will get to where we want to go.
