There are two sides to every coin. There are two parties in our political system. The world is not black and white but our minds like to think in absolute opposites. This is because it makes it easier to draw contrast between what is right and what is wrong. We draw contrast between who am I and who is everyone else. We want to identify with a group and separate ourselves from other groups. This is what we naturally do but if we learn to use both sides and grab good things from everything without pushing away what we may think is negative.
You can make a lot of money and not be evil.
You can thrive in the city and enjoy nature.
You can be a loud extrovert and enjoy your quite time.
There are many things that we think do not go together but we need a balance of both.