Results come from action taken. If you do not have what you want. If you make less money then you want. If your relationship is not what you want. If you do not have the career you want. If you are not happy. If you do not have any of this then you have not taken the action to deserve it.
The more massive action you take the more massive results you will get. No matter what you want there is some action you can take to get it. The more badly you want something the greater the action you will take. No matter how you feel about the action just DO IT! There is no way around hard work. You have to put yourself out there and feel vulnerable.