Doubts and fears are only there because you keep feeding them. You keep acknowledging them and bringing your attention to them. You let them have so much power over you that you use them to make decisions. The more you keep letting these thoughts control your life the more you will drift away from the life you actually want. The challenge is to make decisions based off love and confidence.
Tag: decisions
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noiz viol8ion blog #610 – Do Not Compromise
When things get hard the brain starts to come up with compromises to make things easier. If you stick to your guns and follow through then you will get more out of it than cutting corners or making compromises.
Do not follow someone you know is wrong. Do the work yourself to figure out what is right and what is wrong. Then always do what is right.
You are where you are because of the decisions you have made. Keep raising the standard of your decisions and what is acceptable. You have to look out for yourself first because if you don’t then no one will.
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noiz viol8ion blog #546 – Better Yourself
The only way to better your situation is to focus on what you have control of. Most often this is yourself. You have control of your attitude. You have control of your actions. You have control over your decisions. If you focus on these things and work on improving in the areas of your control the things around you will get better. Small incremental improvements over long periods of time end up in huge results.
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noiz viol8ion blog #541 – Don’t Be Wishy Washy
Unless you commit to certain paths and make decisions you will go wherever the wind blows. You will continue to make the same mistakes or going back to bad habits unless you draw hard lines and put your foot down. It is frustrating when people can not make up their mind. As long as you know what you want then you can make the best decisions and commitments that will get you there.
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noiz viol8ion blog #538 – Good or Bad?
There are many things to consider when answering this question.
There may be different answers for different people and different situations.
The answer may change as time goes by.
Instead of judging whether something as good or bad. Take things as they are and withhold judgement.
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noiz viol8ion blog #537 – Everyone Falls Off the Horse
The moment adversity strikes is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. Will you self deprecate? Automatically blame yourself for something going wrong? Or accept the fact that nothing is perfect? No one can be perfect every time. Everyone falls off the horse but not everyone gets back on.
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noiz viol8ion blog #517 – Make Your Bed
Everyone’s out here trying to change the world when they don’t even have their own life in order. They lead by the motto, “Do as I say not as I do!”
The people who DO watch, listen and follow other people that DO. The best way to change the world is by changing your own life. Change the way you treat people. Change the way you eat. Change the way you spend money. Change the people you hang out with. These are all decisions we make on a daily basis. When people see you living like a king they will wonder how you got there.
Everyone has and wants a different lifestyle but you have to know what you want. Once you know what you want then you can make it.
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noiz viol8ion blog #495 – Look Without Judging
Each person has their own perspective about the world and a situation. Everyone puts a filter on the world. Some people can try on other filters and some leave theirs on thinks theirs is right while everyone else’s is wrong. As they look through this filter they judge things as right or wrong, good or bad. People are romantic about how they think things should go and get upset when they don’t go that way.
If we see things as they are in the moment and not get caught up in seeing things as the way they think they should be we will be a lot more observant. Take the judgement out of it and just observe. Soak in all the information, process it and make the best decision.
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noiz viol8ion blog #459 – Don’t Feed the Beast
There is a dark depressive beast in all of us. It loves when we make excuses. It loves when we doubt ourselves. It loves when we overthink and procrastinate. The beast feeds on all of this negative energy. Every time you don’t do something you want to do or every time you lie to yourself you are feeding the beast a big juicy steak. Until you are free from the beast you will not be free. Until the beast no longer scares you then you will live in fear and regret. Take control of your thoughts and actions. Take control of your decisions.
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noiz viol8ion blog #396 – Trust the Unknown
The world is so enormous and beyond any humans comprehension. It is impossible to know everything. You must develop a relationship with your unknowing. The better you are capable at dealing with your unknowing the better decisions you will make.
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