Tag: decisions

  • Blog #177 – The two reason WHY you do ANYTHING.

    Blog #177 – The two reason WHY you do ANYTHING.

    Every decision you make is based off of these two rationals.

    1. To Avoid Pain
    2. To Gain Pleasure

    Simple.

    Once you know this is how you operate then you can use it to your advantage or it’s going to use you.

    If an overweight person doesn’t diet or exercise they associate massive amounts of pain to the decision to work out or diet. They will go through a litany of excuses about why they can’t or it doesn’t work for them. They will also associate massive amounts of pleasure to the unhealthy foods they eat and the lazy activities they perform.

    On the flip side if a fit person doesn’t diet or exercise they associate massive amount of pain to the decision not to go work out or diet. They associate massive amounts of pleasure to working out and the feeling they will get from eating right.

    To get over the hump on any decision you must enhance the amount of pain it’s going to cause and enhance the amount of pleasure you are going to gain.

  • Blog #162 – Better Decisions Better LIFE

    Decisions will and have changed your life. Decisioin will continue to change the quality of you life. Deciscion will decide the direction of you life. When something happens to you you can DECIDE what to focus on and that will determine what you feel about that even. You decide what job you want and whether to accept the offer. You decide to turn down the offer and keep trying until you get what you really want.

    Make your decisions so you have nothing to regret later.

    Make OUTSTANDING decisions!

  • Blog #142 – How do you decide?

    The power of decisions is not like any other that you posses.

    In a single moment you have the power to change your life through a decision. A decision to keep doing something or to stop doing something will change the course of your life. If you are stuck in rut then you must make the decision to not accept the results you are getting.

    “I can’t take it anymore!”

    This is the beginning of change. Sometimes it is forced upon people by being fired or maybe a family emergency but there is always a single moment where you life will change directions. This doesn’t mean your life is going to get easier. In face it may get harder because you may have to restart a career. You may have to go backwards to move forward but it will get better. It will get better because you are following your heart and making decisions on what you really want and no accepting what is convenient . You must raise your standards for yourself.

  • Blog #97 – Your MOST POWERFUL TOOL

    The most powerful tool you have is your ability to make a decision. The decisions you make will have the greatest impact in your life. The decisions about what you want and don’t want. What you will accept and what is not acceptable. When you make a decision your mind and body will do everything it can to make that decision become a reality.

  • Blog #77 – Building a Snowball of MOMENTUM

    Start. Finish. Repeat.

    Follow all the way through with your actions. Go 100% and do not leave anything left. Do not let doubts or fears slow you down. There will always be some sort of resistance but the most important thing is to keep making progress. Good work habits and good decisions will make this progress go faster. The habits will increase your quantity and the decisions will increase your quality of work. With these two ingredients you will become unstoppable because the results will come flowing in. Your confidence and belief in yourself will grow where the doubt and resistance fade into the background. You will begin to only focus on things that will move you forward. You will take greater action. You will get better results and all of this will feed on itself.

  • Blog #43 – We are Awesome!

    “It is your decisions, and not your conditions, that determine your destiny.”

    Tony Robbins

    There is so much that goes on in our lives that we often become reactive to the conditions that life gives us.

    Unless something drastic happens most people are content to live just as they are. Even if they don’t like how they are living. There is a sense of helplessness that things cannot change. If you believe that things cannot change then you are not going to put in any effort to change them.

    It is understandable that with no belief and no action you will get no results. Without results there is no progress. There is nothing to build from. There is no where to go.

    This is why the first step is the hardest because you have to have the belief even when you have seen no results. You must have blind faith and take that first leap into action. Once you’ve taken the first action you will get the first results. You will see yourself doing what you want and your belief will build. Your actions will become greater and soon your results will be great.

  • Blog #42 – The Gift of Freedom

    Often in life we feel restricted or tied down. In our jobs, houses, relationships, contracts and finances. There is an obligation that we must meet. Because we are putting resources to that obligation the thing that we want to do is not available to us.

    “If it wasn’t for _______ I would be doing _________!”

    This is what we tell ourselves. We think that something has got us trapped or holding us back. The only thing holding you back is this attitude!

    Embrace the language of freedom. Know that you are as free as the bird. You are the pilot of your life and you can go wherever you want to. You do not have to go into a job you hate. You chose to go into a job you hate. You do not have to stay in a bad relationship. You chose to stay in a bad relationship. If you don’t do something because you can’t afford it then how can you afford it?

    If you are lucky enough to be born in the USA then we can make all these choices ourselves. We are not told our career path. We are not told who we are going to marry. We do not have to give away all our money. We are not forced to live somewhere. We are free to make our own choices on our pursuit of happiness.