The only way to better your situation is to focus on what you have control of. Most often this is yourself. You have control of your attitude. You have control of your actions. You have control over your decisions. If you focus on these things and work on improving in the areas of your controlContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #546 – Better Yourself”
Unless you commit to certain paths and make decisions you will go wherever the wind blows. You will continue to make the same mistakes or going back to bad habits unless you draw hard lines and put your foot down. It is frustrating when people can not make up their mind. As long as youContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #541 – Don’t Be Wishy Washy”
There are many things to consider when answering this question. There may be different answers for different people and different situations. The answer may change as time goes by. Instead of judging whether something as good or bad. Take things as they are and withhold judgement.
The moment adversity strikes is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. Will you self deprecate? Automatically blame yourself for something going wrong? Or accept the fact that nothing is perfect? No one can be perfect every time. Everyone falls off the horse but not everyone gets back on.
Everyone’s out here trying to change the world when they don’t even have their own life in order. They lead by the motto, “Do as I say not as I do!” The people who DO watch, listen and follow other people that DO. The best way to change the world is by changing your ownContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #517 – Make Your Bed”
Each person has their own perspective about the world and a situation. Everyone puts a filter on the world. Some people can try on other filters and some leave theirs on thinks theirs is right while everyone else’s is wrong. As they look through this filter they judge things as right or wrong, good orContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #495 – Look Without Judging”
There is a dark depressive beast in all of us. It loves when we make excuses. It loves when we doubt ourselves. It loves when we overthink and procrastinate. The beast feeds on all of this negative energy. Every time you don’t do something you want to do or every time you lie to yourselfContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #459 – Don’t Feed the Beast”
The world is so enormous and beyond any humans comprehension. It is impossible to know everything. You must develop a relationship with your unknowing. The better you are capable at dealing with your unknowing the better decisions you will make.
Know what you know and know what you don’t know. You don’t need to know every bit of information to make a decision or take action. If you can’t make a decision then learn the minimum amount needed. Research, Learn, Ask, Search Being comfortable is a luxury rarely achieved. Learn how to make a decisionContinue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #393 – Uncomfortable Decisions”
Everyone has an initial gut reaction. After this feeling has passed comes in the second guessing and doubt. The analytical mind starts to think of other options and different scenarios. The longer it takes to make a decision the harder it becomes because so much noise is entering your mind and clouding your initial thoughts.Continue reading “noiz viol8ion blog #375 – First Instincts”