Everyone likes to carry around their doubts and fears like they are unique to them. It makes people feel important. When it comes down to it most people have the same doubts, fears and problems.
There is always some Health concern.
There is always Money problems.
There is always Relationship struggles.
There is always Happiness issues.
We are all the same just have different wrapping paper around each different problem.
The journey always starts with a hero. They are not a hero at the start but just an ordinary person in ordinary situations doing ordinary things. The hero is living an ordinary life when a call to adventure happens. It is usually something tragic that happens and the hero has a choice to make. Go on this adventure of self discovery and save their ordinary life. The hero chooses to go on this journey where they are faced with many adversities and challenges. The hero overcomes all of them except one. They are struck down on their pursuit to overcome. To overcome this last obstacle the hero must face their darkest challenges. They must do everything they don’t want to do. Only then does the hero conquer the final beast. When the challenges are over the hero is a new person when they go home to their ordinary life.
Whatever it is you want you must give first. Figure out how you can help people. The secret to living is giving.
What can I get you to help you achieve your dreams?
What can I share to help you?
I know the pain of struggles and just starting out. I know the mind can hold you back from pursuing after what you want. I know that nothing is impossible. If you can dream it you can do it.
I used to be a destination person. I told myself I wanted specific goals, travel to different place, work specific jobs and be a specific person. If these certain things did not happen exactly how I wanted it then I would not be happy and I would see that endeavor as a failure. The problem was things never turn out exactly how you want them to. Instead I started focusing on living in the moment. I wanted to be happy in the process and not just when everything went my way. I made a commitment to be happy on my way to success and not only be happy when I reach success.
Your life and goals are like a giant ship. It takes a lot of energy and effort to get it moving especially if its currently going in the wrong direction. The first goal is to just start there is no wrong decisions. Just like a car it is easier to turn while moving. Develop good habits to keep it moving and then you can steer the ship as you go. Take bigger and bigger actions as your going and build more and more momentum. Do whatever it takes to keep going. Challenge yourself and believe you can reach your destination.
The only way to better your situation is to focus on what you have control of. Most often this is yourself. You have control of your attitude. You have control of your actions. You have control over your decisions. If you focus on these things and work on improving in the areas of your control the things around you will get better. Small incremental improvements over long periods of time end up in huge results.
A mind seed is something you plant and want to create in reality. It could be a job, a house, a relationship, health, confidence, love, happiness. The seed grows on its own but you must know the seeds you are planting in your mind. Then once its planted give the seed the resources it needs. Feed it and nurture it. Let it flourish and grow. Watch it and it will tell you what it wants.
What you think becomes true. If you have negative thoughts constantly going through your head then negative things will happen to you and your body. If you think things are getting better then you will start to notice things improving in your life.
Your mind has a powerful subconscious and unless you control your subconscious then your subconscious will control you. Change your thoughts through repetition and focus. Create a powerful mind by planting seeds in your mind and letting them grow.
Bring together the pieces that will create the life of your dreams. Invite the people you love into your life and hang out with them. Plan your outings that will bring you happiness because its things you love to do. Learn skills that will increase the quality of your life. Build in habits to your daily routine that will make you healthy.
Focus on the bigger picture of your life and make it happen.
If you are a generalist you know a little about a lot of things. If you are a specialist you go extremely deep on one topic. There are pro’s and con’s to both modes of operations. If you are a generalist then you can hire specialist around you. If you are a specialist you need a generalist to manage the pieces around you. Whichever one you are it is extremely important to surround yourself with people who are better than you.
