I used to be a destination person. I told myself I wanted specific goals, travel to different place, work specific jobs and be a specific person. If these certain things did not happen exactly how I wanted it then I would not be happy and I would see that endeavor as a failure. The problem was things never turn out exactly how you want them to. Instead I started focusing on living in the moment. I wanted to be happy in the process and not just when everything went my way. I made a commitment to be happy on my way to success and not only be happy when I reach success.