Many times I am only focused on myself. How do I feel? What people are thinking of me? What am I doing? What are they doing for me? This world is to big to only think of myself. If I want to do anything significant I need to think about other people. I must think about other people’s feelings? I must think about what they are doing? What are they thinking? What do they need? I must be able to understand where people are coming from. I must care about them as much as I care about myself.
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noiz viol8ion blog #415 – Break the Routine
For the last few years, I’ve been trying to instill routines and habits into my life. I have studied and looked up what it takes to easily install a habit. I have not done the opposite. What about all the terrible habits in my life? I have been getting the same results in my life because I have been doing the same things. I have not uninstalled bad habits and made room for the good ones. I cannot simply keep adding onto my life. I must make room for what I truly desire.
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noiz viol8ion blog #414 – Connections
The best part of the internet is that it easily lets everyone connect with each other. We can find other people just like us. People who have struggled with the same problems we have and can help us overcome it. The only thing we need to do is ask the right questions. Depending on the question you ask you will connect with much different people. People who will tear you down. People who will understand. People who will lift you up. The latter is who I want to be and who I want in my life.
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noiz viol8ion blog #413 – The Fear
I have fun and exciting things that I want to do with my life. I dream big dreams that give me so much excitement but they also give me fear. The fear of failure. The fear of not being good enough. The fear of lack. The fear of being judged. The fear of missing out. I have all these fears but the biggest fear I have is not living up to my full potential. This is what drives me and motivates me to be the best I can and to take risks. I know these fears have paralyzed me before but now they motivate me.
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noiz viol8ion blog #411 – Transitions
Do you notice all the transitions in your life?
How about waking up from being asleep, coming home from work, transitioning from exhale to inhale. There are many transitions in life and often we carry over things that should not be carried over.
When you come home from work, leave work at the door. Let it all go and start over with the new activity. Check in with yourself and notice what you are carrying around.
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noiz viol8ion blog #410 – Mobile Lifestyle
There is no excuses. You have a super computer in the palm of your hands. Whatever it is you want to do, Do It!
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noiz viol8ion blog #408 – The Critical You
When you are uncomfortable with yourself everything you do is uncomfortable. When I am uncomfortable I begin to question everything. I criticize how much money I make. I criticize the relationships I have with friends and family. I criticize how happy I am everyday. I criticize my body and how healthy I am, my diet, my musical talent, my life, my relaxation, my cooking, my attire, and everything else I can think of.
I can cause undue amounts of stress in my life because I am not confident in who I am and what I am doing. I become ungrateful for what I have in my life. I begin to go inward and not take risks. I get in my head. I become my own worst enemy.
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noiz viol8ion blog #407 – Your Standards
Do you set a high bar or keep it low?
It’s easy to lower the bar once you have failed multiple times. Once you lower the bar once you lower it again and then you begin accepting things below your standards. Your life is deteriorating and you don’t know why. You are scared to take risks and go into conservation mode. You know your not happy but don’t know what to do. You dug yourself into a whole and don’t know how to get out.
It is up to you to change your lifestyle. Change your goals. Change your actions. Raise your standards. There is nothing in your way besides yourself.
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noiz viol8ion blog #406 – Raise Up
There is no happiness in stagnation.
I often hear, “Be happy with what you got! There are a lot of people who have it worse than you.” While this is true, this is not the best way to make your self happy.
The only person you should compare yourself to is yourself. Comparing yourself to other people always leads to unhappiness because as soon as you compare to the people with less than you you jump to people with more than you and become unhappy again. Or even worse you surround yourself with people worse than you to make yourself feel better. Instead look at yourself and do everything you can to be better than you were yesterday. Slowly make progress in the direction you want to go.
God helps those who helps themselves so raise up and help yourself.
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noiz viol8ion blog #405 – What’s Acceptable?
Look around in your life and wonder why you have the things in your life that you do. Why are you in the house you live in? Why are you in a relationship with the person you are? Why are you doing the job you are? Why are you getting paid what you are?
These things are in your life because you get what you accept. Whether consciously or unconsciously you have accepted everything you got. If you are not happy with what you got then you only have yourself to blame. You get what you deserve.
