You will absorb the qualities of the people around you so make sure the people around you have outstanding qualities that you want. Carefully analyze qualities you want in yourself. If you want to be more social, courageous, athletic, wealthy, healthy, or loving. Look for these qualities in others. Look at what they are doing and try to copy them and develop these qualities yourself. Look at what they are doing that you don’t like and avoid doing those things.
Seek and you shall find.
What are you looking for?
If you start looking for greatness you will find it. If you look for sadness you will find it. If you look for to better yourself then you will find ways.