In everything that you do be a leader. If you want help then offer your help first. If you want love then offer you love first. I you want money then offer your money first. You must put yourself on the line for something you believe in if you want others to do the same. If you want to move others then you yourself have to be moved. People need leaders but they will not blindly follow. People need to trust you and you extending your hand first will gain trust.