If you really want something then you have to be committed to making it happen. You must do whatever it takes to make it happen. There must not be an option to quit. Even if your uncomfortable. Even if you have to wake up super early and stay up late. There is no excuses. Do not negotiate with yourself or make compromises.
Tag: Happiness
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noiz viol8ion blog #597 – Act Rich
To be rich you must think and act rich. Do things that make rich people rich. Be rich in your mind before you can be rich in your life. Notice all the things in your life that make you rich already. If there is nothing in your life that makes you feel rich then you must raise minimum acceptable standards in your life.
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noiz viol8ion blog #596 – Joint Success
When your success equals other people’s success then these people will do everything they can to help you. You must let them know how important it is for them to succeed. You are there to help them anyway you can. In making them better they will offer to make you better.
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noiz viol8ion blog #595 – Everything and Nothing Matters
You do things because they are important to you. You try so hard because you want to look good in front of other people. You want to be seen as a professional and you don’t want to make mistakes because it will make you look bad. This is all in your head. Everyone else does not give a shit about whether you succeed. Unless you tie your missions together other people will not care if you fail or not. Unless they buy into your success as their success then they could care less about what you are doing. It may feel like everyone is judging you but really no one cares. They have their own life going on.
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noiz viol8ion blog #593 – Stay Positive
It doesn’t matter what you do. It matters how you do it. You could be a janitor or you could be a CEO of a company and it tells you nothing about a persons happiness. If you can be great and have fun doing things you don’t want to do then you will be amazing at doing something you do want to do.
Have a mindset that whatever task is in your way you are going to crush it and enjoy doing it. You can have fun doing something you hate or you can hate doing something you love. It all depends what you are focusing on. What you focus on you will feel.
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noiz viol8ion blog #589 – Only Out of Necessity
People only do things out of necessity. Until you absolutely have to get something done you will probably find an excuse or a reason to procrastinate. One habit of successful people is to raise their necessity.
What do you need? What is a must for you?
To get things done you have to turn you should’s into musts. The earlier you realize that you can’t avoid or procrastinate something the sooner you will get it done. The greater the necessity the greater the effort you will put into it and the more value people will get out of it.
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noiz viol8ion blog #588 – Be More Kind To Yourself
Do not keep beating yourself up. It is not doing anything besides making you depressed. If you want to be something to someone then you must be that to yourself first. To love someone you must love yourself first. To move someone you have to move yourself fist. To inspire someone you have to inspire yourself first.
Be the leader by setting the example. Experiment on yourself and see what works and what doesn’t work. When you are experimenting just know that you are experimenting. If something doesn’t work then move on to the next thing. Do not attack your character. Do not call yourself names.
We are all human and are not perfect so stop expecting yourself to be. Collect yourself and get ready for the next opportunity. Try your best and learn from it. Keep getting better. Keep learning. Keep growing. Keep being kind to yourself.
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noiz viol8ion blog #587 – Get It Right First
Take the time to get it right. Mistakes are costly in time and money. Having to pay the price to go back and fix mistakes is a great learning experience. Now you know where you were wrong and the next time you are likely to not make the same mistake. People love it when you make mistakes. There is a whole TV show “America’s Funniest Home Videos” where people laugh at other people’s failure. If you are wrong then they have a scapegoat and somewhere to place the blame. Most people don’t want to put themselves out there and take on the responsibility. They do not want the chance to be wrong.
If you are confident in yourself and the work you do then show it off. Accept the challenge and the responsibility. You know what you are talking about. Show your work and explain why each decision was made. Just get it right the first time or be prepared to learn.
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noiz viol8ion blog #585 – What Traveling Will Do
Traveling will open up a new path and build new connections. When you travel somewhere new then everything is new. Your brain is constantly taking in new information about the sights, smells, tastes, feels and the people. Traveling gives you the sense that the world is a bigger place than you realize. People live different lives and have different cultures. You gain a new perspective about the human and life experience. Your way is not the only way. There are multiple paths to get to where you want to go.
