It is good to be patient and let your skills develop. Then you must not get comfortable being patient. You must balance the patience with impatience.
You must be extremely impatient and push yourself to make things happen.
There is a balance where you are pushing yourself but at the same time not so much that you get discouraged.
Do not try to avoid the struggle. Embrace it!
Leaning into the struggle turns it into a game. You know what the opponent is so it is up to you to beat the opponent and win.
There will be many distractions that try to throw you off your game. These can be people close to you telling you to quit or that you are not good enough. The biggest hurdle is getting over yourself. You must truly know yourself and conquer the inner voice.
When you make yourself believe there is no stopping you.
No matter what it is you are trying to do it can be done.
The beginning is always the hardest part. Once you start then keep going and do not slow down.
We are all artists creating our life’s masterpiece. We have projects that we work on and usually the main goal we have is COMPLETING tasks We have to-do lists and we want to cross things off our to-do lists. Our goal is to FINISH something. When this is the goal. When we put all of our focus on the end. We lose sight of the present.
We end up always being in a hurry. We end up being full of anxiety.
When we finish the goal often we are not happy because we did not enjoy the process.
I propose that once you know the outcome you want to achieve change the goal to the HOW.
HOW are you going to get there?
When you focus on the How the questions change. You are now asking, How can I be happy and accomplish this? How can I complete this and enjoy it? How can I incorporate the people I care about?
With this shift of focus you are bringing yourself into the present moment.
The end is not the most important thing but how you get to the end.
Would you know it if it happened?
Do you have a target for what would be the perfect way to spend 24 hrs?
There are 7 times a week or 356 times a year you can try to achieve that perfect day.
We are creatures of habits so you are either getting closer to this day or further away from it. The goal is not to have the perfect day once but to have the perfect day every single day.
Your day should be helping you get closer to your long term goals and your future perfect day.
String together perfect days and focus on your progress.
We all fall off but must get back on.
Things are not as big as I make them out to be.
The goal is to have more fun and not take everything so serious.
I have the best time when I am playing not when I am overthinking. Tasks are more enjoyable and actually easier. The output is better.
Do not be scared to look stupid.
The more you play the more you win!
With repetition comes confidence. With repetition comes credibility. Repetition builds momentum. With repetition something small compounds into something enormous. With repetition something amazing is built.
Live everyday!
Repeat the good things.
Groundhog day
I want to be successful at everything I do. I want to be the best at everything. I do not want to lose. I want to be the smartest. I want to win. I want to prove to myself that I can do it.
When these things don’t happen I get frustrated. I get down on myself. I get stuck in a rut.
When I am down, I know I need to believe more. I need to have more patience. I need to give more. I need to help other people. I need to be more grateful.
We must not get too high or too low.
Happiness is doing things that you do not want to do.
The easiest thing to do is not usually the thing that will make you happy.
Happiness is knowing yourself and what makes you happy.
The world is working in your favor and the mind is not. The mind is always playing tricks on us. The brain we have was built thousands of years ago when humans were roaming the planes looking for food. We are designed to see the worst case scenario so we can survive, so we can not get eaten by a lion or bear. Now we live in a different time with less predators. Survival is always important but if we want to be happy you have to make that choice.
Make the choice to do what makes you the happiest not what is easiest!
I read that you can learn anything in 20 hrs.
To me that sounds like a short amount of time but then I thought about how often do I spend 20 hrs on anything that is new. This is about my 5th blog entry and it takes me about 15 min to write. To reach 20 hrs it will take me 80 entries. Once I hit that mark I should learn what I am doing. Right now this is all mind garbage. These entries are me scribbling down my thoughts on how to improve people’s lives. I have studied many successful people and I want to share things that I’ve learned. I want to build up a community of like minded people. I want to make money by being creative. I want to share my journey.
I do not know what I am doing but I am doing it any way because I know it will make a difference for someone out there. To someone who thinks they are not good enough. It is a lie!
We are as good as we need to be and as long as we are better tomorrow than we are today then you will succeed!
If today is your last day what would you say?
How did you live your life?
What did you still want to do?
Who did you still want to meet?
Do you even know the answer to these questions? Or have you never asked yourself before.
The best way to start living is to confront yourself with your own mortality. It is time to start living life the way you want to. There is not a second to spare or a moment to waste. Every bit of life should be put towards living to your fullest potential. It is easy to get distracted in this busy world. It is easy to get off course when doing so many things. It is easy to lose hope when things do not work out. It is easy to make bad decisions when peer pressured. It is easy to not take action when you are fearful.
There many things keeping you from having the life of your dreams and that is why you must remind yourself everyday that no matter what the challenge or obstacle…
I CAN AND WILL OVERCOME!
noiz viol8ion 