Know who you want to be by the people you look up to. Have a Mount Rushmore of people you admire. These people poses qualities that you wish to obtain. For example if Abraham Lincoln is on your Mount Rushmore of Influences then what about Lincoln do you admire? If it is his honesty then channel Honest Abe when you are in a situation that is hard to tell the truth. What would Abraham Lincoln do? Asking this question gets us out of our own head and makes us think from a different perspective.
Think and write down 5 people who would be in your Mt. Rushmore. Use these influential people when you get stuck and need more inspiration. Learn and steal from them. Do what they would do. You are the Frankenstein of these influences.