What is the result you want? Is there anyone else getting this result? What are they doing that you can copy?
Look at other people and study how they got to where they are at. When you have an result you want then opportunities will open up to get there. There is no secret to success. Every successful person leaves clues or a chain of events. You can follow these chain of events to see how a person got from A to B. There are many different paths but if you follow a already blazed trail then it will be a lot less bumpy and painful.