Who is getting the results you want?
When someone is getting the results you want copy what they do. Humans learn by modeling behavior like monkey see monkey do.
There are certain rules and actions to get certain results. To be healthy you have to eat diet and exercise. To be wealthy you have to make money. To be happy you have to do what makes you happy. To be loved you have to have great relationships.
Each of these things can be replicated but you have to know what you want.