We are all after the same feelings but are taking different paths to get there. There are a few basic things everyone needs like air, water, food, shelter, happiness and love. Once the basic necessities are met then people can go after their happiness. When you get to love and happiness is where people diverge. What makes you happy? What do you love? For some people it’s family, other’s it’s money, other people pursue a skill or run a business.
When you have your basic necessities met it’s a luxury to do anything else.