When we are lost we look around at people to see what they are doing. We will see what they are doing and then either be motivated to step up our game or demoralized. Either way you need to stop looking at what others are doing and focus on what you are doing.
Stop looking at social media and wishing you had what they have.
Be grateful for your own life and take advantage of the opportunities in front of you.
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