Many people want to be a millionaire but no one wants to put in the work it takes to get there. They would rather get lucky and win the lottery.
Then there are the people willing to put in the work. Are they happy because of the money they have or unhappy because of all the work their doing? They dreamed of one thing but didn’t read the fine print.
Most people want to increase the quality of their life. Most people want to be wealthy and successful. Most people have big dreams for what they are going to do with their life. Not everyone is lucky enough to get these things in their life.
Not everyone has belief. Everyone doesn’t believe their dreams can come true. Everyone does not have enough belief to take the necessary action required. They let fears and doubts fill their minds. These negatives scare people from even trying and so people don’t.
The more you believe the more action you will take. The more action you take the more likely you are to be successful.
Change begins within yourself. You have to change how you think, the way you see thing in the world, your actions, your habits, the way you interact with people, how you talk to people and how you react.
Take a snap shot of where you are right now and what is going on in your life. Take any emotion out of it and just be real with yourself. How is your health? What is your net worth? How are your relationships? Are you happy?
Be detailed and honest with yourself. Bring a level of clarity and awareness to your life. This is your life and your responsibility to make it better or worse than it is now.
Just because there is a deadline does not mean you have to sacrifice quality. The deadline is there to keep you focused. Work backwards from the deadline and capture all of the little items you have to do to complete your goal on time. Do these little items the best you can and the project will be done with quality and on time. Once you complete an item then you have to decide what is the next most important task to accomplish. The sequence of moves is just as important as the moves themselves. A thought out plan can make a project much easier and make you not feel as stressed.
It’s not going to happen overnight so stop stressing yourself out. Enjoy the moments and celebrate the small victories. Break down the huge goal in manageable baby steps. Set deadlines for these smaller baby sets by estimating how much time it is going to take to accomplish each task. The deadline is there to help motivate you to accomplish things and stay on task. It is there to push you and prevent procrastination. The act of setting a deadline tells you that this is important for you to accomplish. Deadlines are your friend.
Without a deadline there is no timeframe. You will accomplish something, “Whenever you have time or when you feel inspired.” This day will never come and you will always be waiting. A deadline will force you to make progress and not procrastinate.
How much time do you worry about what other people think?
Do you change your outfit because you think people will judge you?
Do change your behavior or are afraid to be yourself?
The easiest thing you can do is be yourself. If we let doubts creep in your mind then you are trying to not be judged instead of being all that you can be. When you have full confidence then you are not worried about others, you are enjoying being yourself. You are comfortable in your own skin and don’t need other people’s approval.
I feel excited and scared to follow my dreams. I feel excited because I want to work with other amazing artist and people I look up to. I will get to see how they work and how they have become so successful.
Also, everyone has doubts and insecurities but the successful people act in spite of them. They do the best they can with what they have. I find it hard not to judge myself which can lead me to procrastination and being a perfectionist. Since nothing can be perfect my success comes down to the acceptance of my imperfections.
I must confront all of my fears and not be so focused on myself. The energy I put out is the energy I will get back. The better time I have the more things will fall in place.
Your fears are an acknowledgement that you have turned your back on love. You do not trust that love will take care of you and will help you grow. Love is always there but it is up to you to recognize its signs and pursue them. You may not know where love is taking you but you must trust love has your best interests in mind. Have a relationship with love. Tell love what you want. Put love into the universe and the universe will put love in you. Opportunities will show themselves if you have an open mind and trust.
Doubts and fears are only there because you keep feeding them. You keep acknowledging them and bringing your attention to them. You let them have so much power over you that you use them to make decisions. The more you keep letting these thoughts control your life the more you will drift away from the life you actually want. The challenge is to make decisions based off love and confidence.