To truly make a change you have to associate great pain with the staying the same and associate great pleasure with the desired situation. Why is your current situation painful? What would happen if you didn’t change? What would happen if you did? How will it affect others if you don’t change? How will itContinueContinue reading “Blog #212 – Questions for change.”
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Blog #205 – Emphasize the contrast to influence people
This strategy is to be used for ethical purposes only. When trying to influence people there are two things you must accentuate. The pain of their current situation. This extreme amount of pain will continue or get worse if they stay on their current trajectory.The pleasure of their dream situation. This is the immense amountContinueContinue reading “Blog #205 – Emphasize the contrast to influence people”
Blog #204 – The Struggle is Guaranteed
No matter what life is going to have ups and downs. There will be pains and pleasures. All of the pain is a given. The success and pleasures are up to you. These feelings are not given. You have to go out and take these. You have to make these happen. This is what itContinueContinue reading “Blog #204 – The Struggle is Guaranteed”
Blog #197 – These Two Things Always Pay-Off
DedicationHard-work Sometimes if there is not an immediate result then people lose motivation and focus. We are easily bored and have a short attention span. Time is the most valuable asset everyone has so no one wants to waste their time. If you are trying to lose wait the people think the worst thing isContinueContinue reading “Blog #197 – These Two Things Always Pay-Off”
Blog #177 – The two reason WHY you do ANYTHING.
Every decision you make is based off of these two rationals. To Avoid PainTo Gain Pleasure Simple. Once you know this is how you operate then you can use it to your advantage or it’s going to use you. If an overweight person doesn’t diet or exercise they associate massive amounts of pain to theContinueContinue reading “Blog #177 – The two reason WHY you do ANYTHING.”
Blog #158 – DESTROY Limiting Beliefs
All day we have a commentary running through our minds. When we do something bad that voice very loud. When we do something good the voice is either not there or is very quiet. Where did this voice come from? Why does it feel so real? Why does it break us down and not buildContinueContinue reading “Blog #158 – DESTROY Limiting Beliefs”
Blog #151 – 3 Beliefs to Everlasting Change
Belief #1 – Things MUST Change This is the feeling that ” I can’t take it anymore! I’ve had it! This is the last straw!” If you will no longer accept your current circumstances then you will do whatever it takes to change. Belief #2 – For things to change I MUST change This beliefContinueContinue reading “Blog #151 – 3 Beliefs to Everlasting Change”
Blog #142 – How do you decide?
The power of decisions is not like any other that you posses. In a single moment you have the power to change your life through a decision. A decision to keep doing something or to stop doing something will change the course of your life. If you are stuck in rut then you must makeContinueContinue reading “Blog #142 – How do you decide?”
